My ten-year-old daughter, Lily, had a habit that gradually began to disturb me. Every day, as soon as she walked through the door after school, she would drop her backpack and run straight to the bathroom. No snack, no greeting—just the sound of the door closing behind her.
By the time I realized that something was wrong with my daughter, the signs had already become part of the landscape of our lives. That was the part that I could forgive myself for. Not that I had exactly ignored it, but that I had gotten used to something that should have made me stop…
