My son called to tell me he was going to give his daughter away as if she were a suitcase cluttering up his new life. The worst part wasn’t hearing “we already put the baby up for adoption”; it was hearing my daughter-in-law’s excitement because Bangkok mattered more to them than their own daughter’s blood.
shrugging his shoulders. “If you take her, even better. It saves us the paperwork.” There have been silences in my life that have split me in two, but none like that one. My own son had just reduced his daughter to “paperwork.” Not even a dignified goodbye. Not a tremor in his voice. Nothing. Vanessa…
